Thursday, July 9, 2009

Another Bedside Update

The last couple of days have been difficult. Yesterday Dad's care was turned over to hospice. These people are truly gifted and called to the work that they do. They've compassionately helped us understand the process that Dad is in. He will be staying in the room where he's been for the last week and a half, but the care that he is receiving is comfort care.

Over the course of today Dad's breathing has become increasingly labored and shallow, resulting in a decreasing blood oxygen level. At the same time his digestive system is no longer processing all of the nutrition being given to him; consequently the staff have reduced the amount.

This afternoon Brother Jeff, Brother Lonnie, Brother Peter Okeyo, Brother Paul Moffitt, Brother Jonathan Golf, and later, Brother Steven Strooh all came to visit Dad, to pray with him and to encourage us. This was much appreciated and a real blessing.

At the moment we are sitting at Dad's bedside. We have just read I, II, and III John, Jude, and Colossians to him. These books contain some of Dad's favorite verses.

It's very difficult to sit here and watch this all happen and hard for us to understand. Still, we know and believe that God does ALL things well. Whether in this life or the next, Dad will have the victory and all the glory will go to God.

On another note, Amy's mom (Jan Golden) had a total knee replacement here today. Everything went very well and she's resting comfortably 4 floors above us.

8 comments:

  1. As we look to Him for strength and understanding, "He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds." Psalm 147:3 Love and prayers, Mike and Elsie Bauer

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  2. You continue to be in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.

    Paul & Kathryn

    Isaiah 26:3-4

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  3. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Footprints means possession.
    Just keep holding to His hand, and remember you all are being held up in prayer by many.
    May God Bless and strengthen you all.
    Brad & Nora

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  4. We love you and are praying for you.

    It is during the hardest times of our lives that we realize that "we" are not doing anything - it is only because Jesus is holding us and carrying us through - He is with you every moment...

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  5. Our whole fellowship continue to hold Brother Vincent and you all before the Lord. He is in control of ALL things.
    With love in Christ
    Brian and Carol

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  6. Sis. Maria, Sis. Vittoria, Bro. Franco & Sis. Amy, May God bless those He has "gifted" (such as Hospice, the ministry, and the Body of Christ) to care and comfort you and Bro. Vincent during this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you many times throughout each day. Even now, Lord, we believe that all things are possible!

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  7. Our hearts go out to you all!!!! May God grant you SPECIAL strength at this time. God bless.
    Darren, Mary and family

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  8. We are still holding you all up in prayer. We love you all.

    Mike & Sonia

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