Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Respiratory News
Progress Update & Relocation
Dad has been moved out of the cardiovascular intensive care unit (CVICU) over to a step down critical care unit. He's in a very nice room in a new part of the hospital, which we greatly appreciate, but we'll miss the wonderful, sincere staff from CVICU that gave genuine, heartfelt and compassionate care.Saturday, June 27, 2009
The Weaning Process
It certainly appears that Dad is aware of what has happened to him. The neurologist warned us that Dad may experience bouts of depression as he comes to terms with the situation. At the moment he appears to be more despondent and less willing to communicate. Along with this is the discomfort of being connected to tubes that take care of natural bodily functions, and IV's, and medications, etc. It breaks our hearts to see Dad like this, and again, our plea to God is raise him up or take him home - don't leave him in this condition. We are believing for a miracle and we know that God is more than able.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
A Compassionate But Frank Assessment From The Doctor
We had a very informative meeting with the neurologist, Dr. Almadallal, who is an exceptionally professional and gifted doctor, and a very nice man. He is also very black and white, and just relayed the facts to us, which is what we wanted. I'm going to start from the beginning, like the doctor did for us.
Dad has had a massive stroke. It took place in the brain stem, which is the worst place for a stroke because that it the area of the brain that controls a lot of the body's automatic functions that we all take for granted (like regulating temperature, swallowing safely, enunciating words, breathing rhythm, etc.). The lower left portion of the brain was also affected by the stroke as the blood clot closed off supply to that area as well. The trauma to the brain caused by the stroke produced very aggressive swelling in the first couple of days. The affected, damaged brain tissue is irreparable. We very nearly lost Dad on the Saturday morning (the day after the stroke), but he rallied and pulled through. The swelling in his brain is now reducing and the doctor estimates another 3 to 5 days for all the swelling to dissipate. During this time Dad's condition could improve.
Dad’s right side remains paralyzed and has made no improvement since the stroke. The small impulsive movements from his right hand and foot are primitive responses and not the types of voluntary movement one would need to recover use of the paralyzed side. The doctor thinks that Dad will most likely remain bedridden. There is a chance that with therapy he may be able to sit up in a chair. We don't know if he can swallow and he may have to keep the feeding tube indefinitely. We also don't know if he'll be a able to talk.
They successfully treated Dad for pneumonia. We somehow did not realize that he had pneumonia, but he was treated for it, and is now free of it.
His vision has been damaged in that he cannot see to his right. Both eyes work, but cannot focus simultaneously. As a result the brain naturally uses the dominant eye, which seems to be his right eye. So when Dad is awake and alert he often has only one eye open.
The respiratory team are working on weaning Dad off of the ventilator. This is a critical step in Dad's progress. Please pray that Dad can come off of the ventilator. He will not be able to come home if he is dependant on the ventilator. The first step in weaning him off is to change the mode of the ventilator to CPAP, which they did today at 12:45pm. Essentially Dad is now breathing on his own, through the ventilator. They will monitor his CO2 level in his blood to see if this first step is successful.
As you can see the assessment is pretty sobering. We are a positive people with faith for the impossible, so a report like this almost hurts. We don't even like to speak these things, and prefer to call them lying vanities. Nevertheless, medically, this is his assessment. Our conclusion, however, remains the same. Lord, grant us a supernatural miracle, or take him home. We don't want Dad to stay in this condition and he wouldn't want that either. Please keep praying for all of us. This is easily the hardest thing we have ever gone through. But we know that God loves us and He is in control, and "even now..."
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
PEG Procedure
Now he has no tubes going through his mouth or nose, so we can see his face clearly. The nursing staff kindly gave him a shave too, so he's very presentable. Seeing him like this really emphasises the amount of weight he has lost as his face is looking quite thin.
It's been a few days since we've spoken with the neurologist, Dr. Almadallal. Hopefully, he'll have a positive assessment to report to us.
God bless you all.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Tracheotomy Day
Thank you once again for praying, and for your words of encouragement. It truly means so much to us.
Change Of Schedule
I was able to convey this information to Dad and he acknowledged with a small nod. It sure is nice seeing Dad responding a little bit more to us. It's still very limited and he spends most of the time sleeping, but it sure is more than what was happening a few days ago. So we're definitely thanking God for the progress. Each day we're seeing small, baby-steps of progress, which we find so encouraging. All of our prayers are being answered.
Monday, June 22, 2009
More Procedures
The physical therapist noted that as she worked on Dad's paralyzed right side his left side moved, which indicates some kind of coordination between the two. All together, these small, positive, early signs of movement give us hope that Dad can regain mobility. We know that Dad will do all he can to exercise and do whatever the physical therapists tell him.
More Signs Of Life
We all went to the hospital in the afternoon and in a quiet moment I asked Dad if he would like to listen to a Brother Branham message from an IPOD. Immediately, in direct response to my question, he slowly, and deliberately nodded. It was a definite yes. So, we plugged him into the message titled, Perfect Faith.
These were all very encouraging signs. He's still very sleepy and rarely opens his left eye. His right eye is open a lot and looks normal, but we're not sure if he can actually see anything with it.
Monday is another important day for us. We'll be speaking to more doctors and possibly get an idea of where we'll go from here. Please pray that all goes well.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
A Quiet Day
Now we're looking toward Monday when he goes in for another CT scan and we have our next consultation with Dr. Almadallal.
Each day we continue to ask the Lord for the same thing... abundant life.
Psalm 34:19 - Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all.
Friday, June 19, 2009
Signs Of Progress
There is still no movement from his right hand, but we're expecting, by faith, movement any time soon. His breathing has been a lot more regular today, as well as his temperature. It certainly seems like we're seeing some of the effects of the brain swelling reducing. However, we'll know that for sure on Monday when they plan to do another CT scan.
On Monday, Dad will also be having the tracheotomy done as well as having a feeding tube inserted into his side. This will allow the ventilator and feeding tube to be removed from his mouth. Please pray that this goes well.
Please also pray for Dad right leg. This is the leg doctors extracted veins from for the bypass surgery. Since then the leg has looked very sore and is now hot, swollen and discolored.
God bless you all.
Friday Update
When Vicky visited Dad around noon, he was more sleepy. When she asked if he'd like her to read his Bible to him, he unmistakably and firmly squeezed her hand. Now she and Mum are with him and Amy and I are about to join them.
We do want to take this opportunity to again thank you all for the things you've done: the cards and calls, the visits, the comments you've left on this blog, the errands that have been run, the meals you've picked up for us, and most of all, for the continued prayer. Thank you for continuing to hold Dad's hands up whilst he is unable. God bless you.
Another CT Scan
At this point, we know that there are several auto functions Dad's brain does not seem to be performing, including breathing in a regular rhythm, swallowing safely, and maintaining a constant body temperature. Dr. Almadallal is also quite sure that Dad's right eye has been affected.
After discussing Dad's assessment, the doctor asked us to begin thinking about what happens once Dad is stabilized and we know all the ramifications of the stroke. He is suggesting that Dad will remain paralyzed on his right side, possibly be impaired in communication ability, and maybe unable to eat. There is even a question as to whether Dad will rouse from this stroke sleep that he is in. With all of this in mind, we are to be thinking about the possibility of the need for long term care.
Having said all that, the doctor left the door wide open for recovery. He said Dad's situation has hit bottom and now we wait to see how high the bounce back will be. Any decrease in the swelling would likely bring improvement.
So this is the situation that lies before us. But our hope is in the Lord. Certainly our emotions are all over the place, but once we begin processing the information, the anchor of faith catches and holds us. We often find ourselves saying, "Even now..."
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Testing Time
Dad is scheduled for another CT scan at 3:30pm and the neurologist wants to speak to us all this evening. Of course, I'm asking for your prayers. We are not accepting a long term care scenario. Instead we are believing for abundant life however our sovereign God provides that, but we are trusting for a whole and well Dad. Jesus is the resurrection and the life.
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Stroke Day 5
Dad was less restless this morning and he was running a slight fever. He was sleeping when we visited him and we did not want to disturb him. He has now been taken off of Mannitol which was the medication they were using to control the brain swelling. As the brain returns back to its normal state Dad should become more responsive.When Martha came to Jesus in her hour of great need, at the death of her brother, Lazarus, she spoke these words. "But I know, that even now, whatsoever thou wilt ask of God, God will give it thee." John 11:22
Where is Jesus now? He's in the Body of Believers. Please keep interceding and holding my father up in prayer. Thank you.
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Specifics To Pray For
So, to summarize, here are some specifics to pray for...
- That the deformed ventricle returns to normal.
- For his right eye functions perfectly.
- No brain damage.
- That his right side starts moving.
- And that he's able to talk, eat and function normally.
At this point nothing else can be done. The best thing for us to do is pray, and I know you're all doing that. Thank you so much, once again.
Stroke Day 4
The Physical Therapist came in today and worked on Dad for a little while. Whilst he was there he asked Dad to shrug his shoulders and he did it immediately (just the left one moved). Then he asked him to move his foot and he did. Dad's eyes are shut most of the time, but he's very aware of his surroundings and responds when you speak to him. It's so encouraging seeing these small steps of improvements.
Thank you for interceding for us and for standing in the gap. Your prayers are being answered, but please keep holding us up. You are the Body of Christ in 2009 and healing comes through the body. Have faith. Stand still and watch the Salvation of the Lord.
Monday, June 15, 2009
Signs Of Recognition
Until today Dad's right eye has not moved. It's been fixed, looking straight forward, with the pupil small and pinpoint. Today this eye is moving and the pupil is larger. We rejoiced to see this progress.
According to the doctor Dad's neurological assessment is unchanged. He is still in a critical condition, and in the 3 to 5 day window when the brain swelling can reach its maximum. Please pray that he not only makes it through, but starts to move his right side.
Made It To Monday
Please keep praying for us. It's so hard for all of us to see my Dad in this condition.
Thank you and God bless you all for your support.
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Evening Update
Dad is resting, but restless. The neurologist has assured us that he is not experiencing pain, and he told us that given the improvement of today over yesterday, we should all keep praying because it's working. He is still saying that if dad survives he will not regain much of his ability. We're still believing that God can do exceedingly above what we can think or ask. We're believing for total recovery, a whole restoration, a complete work.
Thank You All
Signs Of Progress
At present they are inserting a PICC line into him, so that they can take out the many IV ports in his right arm, which has swollen. This will give them easy access to administer the medication, and also allow them to exercise his right arm.
Saturday, June 13, 2009
A Cloud The Size Of A Man's Hand
This is the first piece of good news that we've had so far, but because this situation is so dire, the bar for good news is very low. However, we are still rejoicing and thanking God.
Keep Praying
So this is the doctor's assessment, but we know that we serve a True and Living God, a High Priest who can be touched by the feelings of our infirmities. Dad simply is not going anywhere until his time is up, and God is the only One who knows when that is. Still, it is a very hard process to go through and we have shed many tears.
Again, we are very touched by all the love and support that we have been bathed in. We love you all and count it a privilege to be part of this Body of Christ.
Friday, June 12, 2009
In Need Of A Miracle
The doctors have been very honest with us and are preparing us for the worst. Still, we know and are sure that the God we serve is in control and is more than able to show Himself mighty on Dad's behalf. We know that we need a miracle.
We know that you all are standing with us in this time of desperation. Please pray especially for Mum who is so afraid of losing her lifelong sweetheart.
Thank you for all of your prayers, love, and offers of help. We have been simply overwhelmed by love from the Body of Christ.
I'll try to post more information when it is available, but sometimes it's just hard to find the time...
God bless you all.
An Opportunity For God To Show Himself Mighty
The next 24 hours are critical, but especially the next couple of hours. We're praying that the Lord will allow his brain to re-route blood to the affected area and restore function and movement. We believe that Christ came not just to give us life, but to give us abundant life.
When there is more news I will try to update this blog.
Thank you for praying for all of us.
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Doing Better And Better
After a good snooze in the afternoon Dad felt much better and was able to go for another walk (which I keep missing!) and he did many other exercises. He's also doing much better with the respiratory exercises, which is great because it's very important to exercise his lungs.Thursday AM
If you plan to visit, he would enjoy that, but please respect the nursing staff reminder that he is still in ICU, and visits should be 2 people at a time, for no more than 15 minutes.
Evening Visit
We stopped by the hospital before church and this is what we found. Yes, Dad was working his way through another meal. Potato soup, baked Tilapia, and blueberry yogurt. Not bad. After eating he got very sleepy, and could barely keep his eyes open, so we left him to rest.Later on they took him for another walk and it seems like each time they take him a bit further, which he enjoys achieving.
His right leg is still bleeding. This is where they took the veins for the bypass surgery. Please pray that the bleeding stops, and that the incisions heal up nicely.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Up And Walking
Dad had a pretty good night's sleep. They woke him up at 4am to wash him and adjust his medication. They also removed the nasal tube (which went down into his stomach) and the catheter. He then snoozed some more and at 7am that gave him some chicken broth. They then did some exercises with him, and after that they showed him the best way to get up. He has to rock backwards and forwards a few times and then get up. Once up they took him for a short walk, and then back to his chair. After all that they brought in an omelet and a cup of tea, which he thoroughly enjoyed. Sounds like his appetite is back and Mum can't wait to fix him some pasta!After all this activity he felt really tired, so we left him to have a well deserved snooze. God is so good to us.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
A Milestone Reached
Tonight Dad was moved to a step down room within ICU. We're so happy with his progress. His color is good, he communicating well, and has had a lot of the tubes removed. This is the first of many milestones, and we are thanking God all the way. This time last night it was a very different story. We truly are fearfully and wonderfully made.
A Pleasant Surprise
Visitation
Deep Breathing

They have been trying to sit him up, but every time they raise him he feels sick, so they stop. Now they are slowly raising the bed in increments.
A New Day
He's smiling and is making progress, and we're so thankful for that.
Bleeding Update
When we saw him (about 2:30am) he was very much with it and was able nod in acknowledgement to statements I made. He cannot speak because of the breathing tube, but a lot can be said through the eyes.
The nurse advised us that it would be better if we gave him some time to sleep, and we thought that this would be a good opportunity for us to get some rest as well. So this will be my last update to this very long day.
Thank you all once again for your love and prayers, and calls of encouragement.
Monday, June 8, 2009
Night Time Update
In Recovery
Brother Jeff and family kindly came up to visit us and it was a huge encouragement, especially for Mum. We were able to go back and pray together with Dad.
As the night progresses Dad is becoming more and more responsive. He's winking at us, and giving us a thumbs up. God is so good to us.
Out of Surgery
We'll see him in recovery soon.
Heart Bypass Day

After lunch we got an update from the medical team letting us know that they have found the veins that they will be using for the bypass surgery.
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Vincent Grillo's Heart Bypass Operation

Vincent went in for a stress test on Friday, May 29th. He did not do very well on that and the doctor set him up for an immediate heart cath. He had his heart cath a few hours later and they discovered that his heart has multiple blockages, which are the kind that should not be treated with stents. They said he was a serious case and should have bypass surgery within the next couple of weeks.
On Friday, June 5th he went back to the hospital for vein mapping. He is now scheduled for heart bypass surgery on Monday, June 8th and must be at the hospital by 6am.
Please pray that all will go well.

